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I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I can't imagine how difficult that is. I honestly think just hand written notes from you are going to mean the world to her. Maybe pictures from when you did those things, got your license, graduated, pregnant with her, etc. Obviously food items aren't going to work well, and I wouldn't use gift cards as those will just go down in value and places might close. I think highly sentimental things will work. Pictures of you and her together. Funny stories from your life, her childhood. Maybe a special item, like a ring or locket. But maybe put them in a safety deposit box and just give her the code when she turns a certain age. Since these are meant to be kept for years rather than months. I don't imagine she will lose them as they will be highly valuable to her, but always better to be safe. Maybe a lucky penny to put in her car or a special trinket to carry with her when she gets her license/graduates. I would also suggest that you ask someone for help gathering the items. If you can write the notes and then ask someone you trust to help find the pictures, things to put inside, that might be helpful so you know it will get done, even if you can't finish it. And they might hold on to certain items for you to give when she opens the letter. Best of luck.